CHEATER CHAT

Praise vs. Criticism

Love vs. Hate

Mature vs. Juvenile

It's been an extraordinary couple of months since the website has launched but with over 35,000 people who have registered and over 700 cheaters posted we are becoming more and more educated each day. We receive emails from our Contact Us page on a daily basis and some people love the site and some hate it and the passion expressed from either side is exemplary. We do contact some of the people who post cheaters and also enjoy responding to some of the complimentary and the critical emails.

The one hope is that when people do post someone it is a legitimate cheater. Have the proof to back up your story. The more evidence you have the easier it is to prove that person is a cheater. We love the posting of Scott Daws - it's to the point, no name calling and a legitimate warning to other people out there.

Keep sending those inquiries, criticisms and compliments – we love to hear from you!!

Do you have the proof?

As the trendy topic of cheaters with famous faces continues, the CR team can’t help but wonder what other dirty little secrets exist in the Hollywood chasm.  Reggie Bush has joined the (dis)likes of Jesse James and Tiger Woods as the most recent celebrity to find himself embroiled in a cheating scandal.  Dirty digital trails of voice mails, sexts and photos have outed these affairs as today's technology has made it nearly impossible for a public figure to hide their indiscretions.

But, perhaps YOU or someone close to you has a story to tell – a sexy tryst with Reggie, Jesse, Tiger or perhaps another notable hottie? And what about the ladies being unfaithful? Cheaters can be male or female you know. We’re wondering who else is out there whooping it up behind their partner’s back?

Cheater Registry wants to hear from you -all you need is a little evidence!

Create a new profile for the cheater (anonymously, if you wish) and upload the proof – photos, videos, sexts and voice mails, oh my!  Our database of disloyal lovers is anxiously awaiting your addition!

Jesse James cheats on Academy Award winner Sandra Bullock... Tiger's naughty and aggressive texts were revealed by Joslyn James... should we keep a lookout for scandals involving basketball star LeBron and chubby actor Kevin?

According to Wikipedia a scandal is a widely publicized allegation or set of allegations that damages the reputation of an institution, individual or creed. Really? Do you actually think that in the long run these men's lives will be so overwhelmingly tarnished that they won't go on to live the way they were living before the eruption of their scandals? Yeah, me neither.

Take Charlie Sheen for instance.  He has faced drug charges, cavorted with prostitutes, accidentally shot a former fiancée and most recently found himself in serious hot water after being arrested on charges of domestic violence, including second-degree assault against wife Brooke Mueller.

His name may as well be Raymond because everyone still loves him. He's got a number one sitcom and despite all the criminal activity in his past, the things people most remember is tuning into one of his late night reruns and laughing at his man-whore antics.

Tiger and Jesse both said that they were sorry.

Yes - sorry that they were caught.

Because this forum has to do with relationships we are finding that people are posting their partners even though they're not cheaters. We have gotten over 30 submissions of people who won't commit, some who travel too much for work and even some complaining about their over-flirty partners but none of these profiles had any evidence of actual cheating.

We didn't want to just delete these profiles with a cold email that said, "Sorry but the profile you posted didn't have sufficient evidence that they cheated" so we sent out some heartfelt emails inquiring as to why they outed their non-cheating partners. You would be astounded as to the responses. First, none of the replies were less than 500 words. Doesn't sound like a lot? At the end of this sentence will only be 134 words.  Second, it was clear that they were trying to get their loved one's attention.

FINALLY. People are starting to understand what this site is all about. Communication. Everyone that we emailed and even spoke to were so desperate to have these conversations face to face with their partners but found that this might be the best way to START that discussion. One man said, "We read about Cheater Registry this morning together at breakfast and had a brief non-cheating discussion but at the conclusion she walked out the door for a three day business trip. In the beginning of the relationship I would use those three days to go out with the boys but now they all have families too and I just miss her when she's gone."

He is planning to have a heart to heart with her about trying to cut back on all the travel when she returns. I wish him (and ALL of you) the very best!!

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

If you are not cheating and your partner adamantly accuses you of being unfaithful then perhaps you should turn it around and ask them about how loyal they've been.

More times than not the one who is guilty is the one who accuses the innocent.

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